On the road again . . . and again . . .

My current home in Fallbrook, Calif.

My first full day in my current home — 3706 South Mission Road, Fallbrook, Calif. — was January 1, 2012. The years since mean that I have lived here longer than anywhere else in my adult life. I’m in my 9th year here and two previous “long” residencies were about eight years each.

To some, this is likely no big deal. My friends who have lived in the same place for decades, however, might consider me at least footloose.

Since I graduated from Boston College in 1968, I’ve lived at 26 separate addresses in 19 different cities/towns, 22 zip codes, and six different states — Rhode Island, New York, Massachusetts, Connecticut, New Hampshire, and California. All but four residences were rentals (the Navy ship and Navy quarters ashore were free). I have owned one home in Massachusetts and three in California.

I’m going to give some information about each residence in chronological order. I’ve been able to find contemporary photos I took of some residences and have found images of others online, usually Google Street View. 

After graduating from BC, I went home to Springfield, Mass., worked at the local newspaper, then took some time to drive out to Ohio to see friends and to Chicago to see a girl. Then I joined the Navy.

Nimitz Hall, Naval Officer Candidate School, Naval Base, Newport, R.I. 02841 — September 1968-February 1969

I had technically “joined” the Navy earlier in terms of taking the enlistment oath, etc. Being in the Navy started on September 28, 1968.

I was a member of Class A6903 and the 14 of us lived on the first floor of Nimitz Hall. Two guys to a room. Communal bathroom. Excuse me, communal head.

Some motel, Norfolk, Va. — February-May 1969
I spent nine weeks in Norfolk, Va., attending courses in Naval Intelligence and Combat Information Center (CIC) procedures. Stupidly, I did not take advantage of the free housing for bachelor officers and rented a room, likely by the week, in a local motel. I assume my mailing address would have been through the command.

USS Biddle (DLG-34)

Took this picture from a helicopter.

I reported aboard Biddle on 3 May 1969 and lived on the ship for the next nine or so months, including a deployment to Southeast Asia (the Vietnam thing), and later for another month cruising in the Caribbean. For a couple of months in early 1970, I and two shipmates rented a house in Norfolk. No idea where.

Our mailing address was one of two Fleet Post Offices, one in New York and another in San Francisco, depending on which ocean we were in.

Bachelor Officers Quarters, Naval Amphibious Base, Coronado, Calif. — July 1970-July 1971
I was ordered to Commander, Naval Special Warfare Group, Pacific, which was located on the Naval Amphibious Base in Coronado.

The BOQ was a multi-story rectangular slab (and I cannot find a photo; Google Street View does not go onto the base), but the rooms were great, especially their free cost. And the view!

Looking south along the Silver Strand from my room.

I was released from active duty a few months early, because the Navy was drawing down from Vietnam and I had been readmitted to Columbia Graduate School of Journalism beginning in September. After a couple of months at home, off to the Big Apple!

West 78th Street, New York City 10024 — 1971-72
My first residence in New York in 1971 was on West 78th Street, Manhattan. It’s probably a pretty tony address these days, but the early 1970s were not the greatest time in New York. Fun and all, but a bit dangerous and tawdry (which may have been some of the reasons it was fun).

I had driven down to the city from my parents’ house in Springfield, Mass., in the summer to find a place. In what would become typical fashion, I found it in a day and secured rental of a fourth-floor walkup on 78th Street, between West End Avenue and Riverside Drive. It was in an old brownstone, a perhaps once elegant home with rooms now broken up into apartments. A wall erected in the single room created a “bedroom” and a kitchen and bathroom were wedged into two corners.

I noted the presence on the apartment entry door of two deadbolt locks and a security bar. The bar had one end on the floor and the other was connected to the door near its handle. You slid the bar over to “lock” it in place. Hmmmm.

I stayed up late the first night I was there. Watched Citizen Kane on TV. When I woke up the next day, I saw that both deadbolts had been unlocked and the security bar had been moved, but not enough to “unlock” it. Yikes.

I made sure from then on that everything was locked up, and I think I jury-rigged something else to secure the door.

West 110th Street, New York City 10025 — 1972
For security reasons, and maybe others (mucho roaches), I moved from W78th after a couple of months. I must have been on a month-to-month or something. I probably found my next place from a list at Columbia. Ended up moving into a bedroom in an apartment  in a massive building on West 110th Street, just east of Broadway and much closer to campus. My apartment mate was an elderly man (probably younger than I am now), who was very quiet and unobtrusive. His daughter, I believe, was the person who acted as “landlord.”

Google Street View

Columbia Journalism School was a one-year program. But “class” was every day, nine to five. If you didn’t have an actual “class” where you sat to listen to a lecture, you were out doing assigned reporting or working on a film (not video) or broadcast. I had been admitted originally to the Class of 1969 when Navy service intervened. I became acquainted with a member of that class when I later worked at Berkeley. 

Tom Goldstein was dean of the Graduate School of Journalism at Berkeley 1988-96 and later became dean at Columbia. Tom told me that members of his class at Columbia (which would have been my class, too) had an average of three job offers per person. I believe that my class (1972) flipped that, with about a third of the class having any job offer at all. There had been a significant change in the Newspaper Guild contract, I recall being told, which disadvantaged most new journalists.

West Roxbury and Salem, Mass. — 1972
I ended up getting a job offer, though it was not at the New York Times or any other major paper. Sometime in the summer of 1972, I joined the staff of the Beverly Times, one in a newspaper “chain” based on the North Shore of Boston. Initially, I crashed at the apartment of friends in West Roxbury, sleeping on a couch.

The commute to work was . . . ah, difficult. It was about 30 miles each way, and one would do most of it on Route 128. It took quite a while and meant I needed to leave by around 6 am. I made the situation worse by staying up to watch the 1972 Democratic Convention. I was a fan of Senator George McGovern at the time and wanted to see him secure the nomination. That convention was more than fractious and procedures often went long past midnight. 

So I was late to work several days in a row. It was not unnoticed. I was “urged” to move closer and get to work on time. I took a room at a pretty decrepit hotel in downtown Salem, Mass. It featured lawn furniture in the lobby. There were no phones or toilets in the rooms. You gave out the hotel number and, if someone called, this very loud buzzer would go off and you had to go to the lobby. Toilets were down the hall. I don’t recall the hotel name and doubt it still exists.

24 Fletcher Street, Winchester, Mass. 01890 — 1972-73
I think I lasted in Salem for only a few weeks, thank goodness. My savior was Reid Oslin, high school and college classmate. He called me to ask if I might want to be the third in a house rental in Winchester. Yes! Please!

Google Street View

The person who had secured the house was Gene Uchacz, director of the RecPlex and men’s lacrosse team at Boston College, where Reid also worked. The commute became significantly easier and the living arrangement was simply great. Not long after we moved in, Tommy joined us. Tommy was Gene’s Old English Sheepdog.

The house was a duplex, two bedrooms, one bath. We occupied the right-hand side. Being last one in, I lived up in the “attic,” with the gable window. Reid reminded me recently that there was no heat in the attic. I recall scraping ice off the inside of the window during the winter.

There were several, I mean many, wonderful parties. I spent time making party tapes, recording a mix of songs on a single tape to play on a reel-to-reel. That way, we didn’t need a record player and didn’t have to change records frequently. Just roll the tape and, when it ended a couple of hours later, rewind and replay. (I’m sure younger folks will be puzzled by these terms and references.)

One party apparently generated complaints from neighbors about noise. A couple of Winchester cops showed up. Checking the party out, they hung around for longer than maybe would have been necessary just to get us to turn the volume down.

Woodgate Apartments, Enfield, Conn. 06082 — 1973-74
Home life in Winchester was great, work life in Beverly not so much. I contacted the Springfield (Mass.) Daily News, where I had worked summers as a college student, and took a reporting job there.

I spent a few weeks living with my parents and then joined Leo de Natale, another former Beverly Times escapee who had gotten a job with the Hartford Times, in renting an apartment in the Woodgate Apartments in Enfield, Conn., just over the state line from Springfield.

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More good times, and an even easier commute. But I did miss being in the Boston area.

Mediterranean Woods, South Weymouth, Mass. 02188– 1974-75
Reid came through again. In summer 1974, he contacted me and said there had been a change in the public relations staff at BC, with Eddie Miller now the chief PR person. Eddie, he said, was interested in talking with me about joining his staff. I was offered a job and got a raise.

Back to Boston . . . and BC!

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After a couple of weeks sharing a house with another former Beverly Times colleague on Hawes Street in Cambridge, Mass., I joined my sister, Ann, at Mediterranean Woods, South Weymouth, an apartment complex just off Route 3.

That led to some number of months “enjoying” the commute between Chestnut Hill and the South Shore. It was worse than the earlier North Shore commute.

Beacon Street, Boston, Mass. 02116 — 1975-76
One of the tonier addresses on this list is my year or so on Beacon Street in Boston’s Back Bay, between Clarendon and Dartmouth streets. This apartment was another instance of a grand townhouse turned into separate apartments. My second-floor unit faced the street and had large bay windows on that front wall. A kitchen and bath area had been carved into a corner and my “bedroom” was a loft.

Google Street View

It was a great location in terms of access to much of what Boston had to offer. It also had no assigned parking. Spent a lot of time trying to find a parking space, feeding meters, and walking back and forth to wherever it was I could find a space. I remember, in one snowstorm, just driving into a pile of snow and leaving it.

We made best use of the location at the annual Boston Pops July Fourth Celebration on the Esplanade in 1976. That was America’s Bicentennial, so it was an extra special occasion, attended by an estimated 400,000 people. Ann and friends dropped stuff off at my apartment early and we joined the throngs on the Esplanade, a few hundred yards away.

The location was especially helpful in terms of toilet. There were perpetual long lines at the porta-potties, but my apartment was an easy walk.

I also remember an earlier special night, even though I was alone in the apartment, pretty sick with the flu. I was on the couch, watching on a very small TV the sixth game of the 1975 World Series, taking place less than a mile west of me, in Fenway Park. The game against Cincinnati had gone into the 12th inning. Boston catcher Carlton Fisk was at bat. He hit a long fly ball toward the Green Monster in left field. As he ran down the first base line, he motioned with his arms for the ball to stay in fair territory. Only barely. The ball hit the foul pole, which meant it was a fair ball and the winning home run. I think I tried to cheer. I may well have failed in that, but I had a pleasant sleep.

Lake Shore Road, Brighton, Mass. 02135 — 1976-77
Rent for the Beacon Street apartment was $325 a month, I believe. That would be about $1,600 today. I think my salary at the time was maybe $14,000 a year. After taxes and other expenses, that rent started to hurt a little. I thought it better to find a roommate or two to reduce expenditures.

Google Street View

Len Deluca, whom I had come to know working at BC, was a student at BC Law then. I joined him and a guy named Howie, renting an apartment in Towne Estates, a collection of apartment buildings off Lake Street and adjoining Chandler’s Pond (the “lake”), only a few blocks away from Commonwealth Avenue and the BC campus.

This commute was so easy that I remember driving to work one morning, maybe early, when it was snowing, and realizing after a while that I was alone. I called the BC operator (another puzzler for young’uns), who informed me BC was closed due to the storm.

425 Partridge Street, Franklin, Mass. 02038 — 1977-82
I turned 30 in 1976 and actually had a bit of a tough time about it. “Adulthood” and all that that entailed loomed before me. And it came to be.

I had met and was dating on a singular basis a young woman named Rebecca. Holding a steady job and eligible for a VA loan, which required no down payment, I looked into buying a house.

Rebecca joined me on the tours of houses and I noticed that the real estate agents (all women, as I remember) spent most of the time talking with her. What about a house was she interested in? What was her reaction to the house we just saw? I ended up in the back seat, literally and figuratively.

After the 1978 blizzard

They were smarter than I was, however. I, with Rebecca’s approval, bought a small Cape in Franklin, a community still containing a lot of farms southeast of Boston, a marathon (26 miles) away. I think the mortgage was for $36,000. We moved in sometime in the early fall of 1977.

The house had 1,296 square feet, two bedrooms and a bath on the ground floor, with two bedrooms in a finished attic

We lived there when we were married (in 1978) and had our first two children (1980 and 1982).

In 1979, we took a road trip across the United States in our Volkswagon diesel Rabbit. When we came back, we agreed there were three places we visited to which we would consider a move — New Orleans, San Diego, and San Francisco.

I had been working at BC for eight years. I had been told I would not be considered for the open position of Director of Public Relations because I was considered “too radical.” So I thought about a change.

I saw a job opening at the University of Southern California for director of publications and applied. I interviewed with my prospective boss for the job at the annual conference of the Council for Advancement and Support of Education (CASE), which saved him the cost of my visiting LA. Soon thereafter, I learned someone else had been selected. Bummer.

Then I was contacted by San Diego State University. The person who was director of publications there was the person selected by USC. They asked USC who their second choice had been and it was me. SDSU didn’t want to go through a lengthy search process, so I got the call. I met my prospective boss at BC as she was attending a conference in Boston.

This was taking place near the end of Rebecca’s pregnancy with our second child, a circumstance that did not allow me right away to make a visit to San Diego. Son Dillon was born on October 1, 1982, and I soon took my trip. Two days of interviews and I was hired. They had a realtor drive me around to look at a few options for housing. I remember thinking the neighborhoods looked so familiar. Then I realized the familiarity came from seeing ones just like them on so many TV shows.

8622 Warmwell Drive, San Diego, Calif. 92119 — 1982-84
BC colleague and good friend Lee Pellegrini agreed to accompany me on a cross-country drive to San Diego, in the Rabbit again. I believe I paid for housing and food, as well as his plane trip home. It took us six days or so.

Once we were in San Diego, we set out to look at rentals. Unfamiliar with San Diego, we didn’t realize how the topography made finding addresses difficult. You might be looking for an address with the number 3545, get on the street and find that the street ended at 2887. Additional houses were on the other side of the canyon where the same street continued. It happened several times. This is way pre-GPS, of course.

Found a place in the San Carlos neighborhood, in the eastern part of the city. Not a Cape. This was one floor, large open living area, three bedrooms, one bath, 1,577 square feet, patio, canyon view. SoCal!

We had sold the house in Franklin, so Rebecca and the two kids, ages 2 years and a couple of months, spent a bit of time in Springfield with my parents before flying out to California. I’m pretty sure they flew out of Bradley Field in Connecticut and that there were at least two connecting flights to get to San Diego. Not easy for Rebecca. They arrived not long after the movers and came to San Diego during one of the wettest winters in its history. 🙂

My employment was probationary for the first two years. I realized not long into my employ that my boss wanted me to do something about a member of my staff with which I disagreed. I then realized that my employment might well be terminated if I didn’t do it, so I started looking for a change. A colleague at SDSU told me about an opening at University of California Berkeley.

7116 Plank Avenue, El Cerrito, Calif. 94530 — 1984-85
I was invited to come up to Berkeley for an interview. When I learned that they intended to offer me the job, depending on references, etc., I explained the circumstances that had prompted me to look for a job after less than two years in my current one and asked that they not contact my boss. They agreed. It was such a pleasure later to surprise my boss with the announcement that I would be working at Berkeley.

Berkeley provided listings of rentals to prospective employees and faculty. I flew up one morning and started to check them out. By the time I left that afternoon back to San Diego, I had secured a rental in El Cerrito, a couple of towns north of Berkeley in the East Bay.

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One floor, three bedrooms, two baths, 1,219 square feet.

1605 Bonita Avenue, Berkeley, Calif. 94709 — 1985-92
Again, feeling secure in my job and getting pretty good pay, we started to look for a home to buy. Our realtor found a home in what had been termed the “gourmet ghetto” of Berkeley, maybe three-quarters of a mile north of my office. The area contained several notable eating, food, and coffee establishments, including Chez Panisse and the first Peet’s Coffee. A San Francisco Chronicle article had given the area the moniker, citing that people “dressed up for breadlines” as they sought morning fare from bakeries.

The university had been founded in the mid-19th century on what was described as the “German model.” Students would live in the community surrounding the university rather than in dormitories, and faculty would also be in the community. As a result, Berkeley had few dorms for students and many properties were constructed or renovated to provide student housing.

The house we bought was a late 19th-century maybe Queen Ann-style, gabled but on the low end of ornamentation. It had two unconnected floors. The lower level had been renovated into a two-bedroom/one bath rental unit, and the upper level was also two bedrooms, one bath, and had a dropped ceiling. In the back yard had been plunked another rental unit, a two-bedroom/one-bath single-story “ranch” house.

Visiting the old homestead in 2001.

With our kids young, we figured we could rent out the bottom unit to students. And we wanted the back house as a potential place for my mother to live.

Mortgage rates at the time were about 12 percent. The people who owned the house thought of us, our realtor said, as a nice young family (which we were) that could use a break (which we could). Our original mortgage was interest-only payments with a balloon for the whole amount in five years. We were able to secure regular financing within a couple of years.

My mother did move into the house in the back. Using some of the proceeds from the sale of her house back in Springfield, Mass., we moved her furniture and belongings out and renovated the house for her arrival.

We also began renovation of the main house. The kids were older and more numerous, with a second daughter born in 1989. We wanted to connect the two floors in the main house by adding a simple stairway inside, which required a permit. The city ruled, however, that such an action was against city policy in that it would reduce the number of distinct rental units and the permit was denied. We did what many other owners did and built the stairway anyway (the person who later bought the house from us had no problem with that).

By the early ’90s, we were concerned about schools for our kids who were now approaching or at middle school age. Berkeley public schools were iffy and private schools expensive. My mother had Alzheimer’s disease and it had progressed to the point that she needed to be in an assisted-living facility. We decided to look into communities on the other side of the Berkeley/Oakland hills.

The person who bought the house from us in 1992 still lives there. Realtor.com estimates the current value of the property at $1,745,000.

45 Robert Road, Orinda, Calif. 94563 — 1992-95
We bought our “dream house” in summer 1992. It was located in the town of Orinda. Single-story, four bedrooms, two baths, walk-in pantry, Sub-Zero refrigerator, and a pool. 

Be careful what you wish for.

For reasons I expect actually had nothing to do with the house, Rebecca almost immediately began to talk about returning to New Hampshire, where she had been born and raised. To make a long, depressing story short, she filed for divorce and left for New Hampshire after Christmas, taking our three-year-old daughter with her, and leaving our son and older daughter with me. She returned to us in the spring, but the divorce proceeded and I was soon under court order to sell the house.

It took quite a while. And in 1996, the house was sold for $65,000 less than we paid. Currently, Zillow estimates its value at $1.95 million.

3366 Mount Diablo Blvd. #52, Lafayette, Calif. 94549 — 1995-96
Lafayette was and is a nice community just east of Orinda. Park Lafayette Apartments was an apartment complex “downtown.” Not a home, just a place to stay.

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Based on how our divorce judge had ruled previously, I figured the only way I was going to continue to be able to see my kids was to get a position in New Hampshire. I saw an opening for a director of publications at the University of New Hampshire, Durham. I applied and, after coming up with a rationale for why I was leaving Berkeley for UNH and taking a significant pay cut, I was hired.

I was due to start September 1. Then Rebecca sought a new custody evaluation. We had 50-50 custody of the three kids at the time. The therapist appointed as special master for the evaluation was vacationing in August and wouldn’t be able to start until September. The special master advised that we be on a week-to-week custody exchange.

I was able to arrange with my bosses at Berkeley and UNH that I would continue to work for Berkeley until the evaluation was concluded and “commute” to UNH every other week, beginning my work there as a “consultant.”

Thus began several weeks of coast-to-coast flights San Francisco-Boston. Lots of money, but also lots of mileage points.

Again to alleviate the reader from extended discussion of the custody evaluation, the decision came down. I was awarded full legal and physical custody of my son and younger daughter, while my then-16-year-old daughter would stay with her mother but undergo reconciliation with me.

Longmarsh Road, Durham, N.H. 03824 — October 1996-February 1997
We moved to the sticks. I couldn’t find the house on Google Street View or a picture from that time. Indeed, Google Street View does not go far enough on Longmarsh Road to view the house. This overview gives you a good idea of the area.

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I rented the house knowing it had been put up for sale. The agent and owners assured me that was not likely to happen anytime soon. So, of course, a couple of months after we moved in, I was informed the house had been sold and we would need to vacate no later than February.

16 Denbow Road, Durham, N.H. 03824 — February 1997 – May 2000
It’s not like there are a ton of rental opportunities in the Seacoast area of New Hampshire in mid-winter. I got lucky for the first time in a long time.

Another snowy view.

This house was bigger than we needed, and is, I believe, the biggest house in which I have ever lived. It was available, somewhat affordable, and less isolated than Longmarsh. Just under 2,300 square feet, four bedrooms, two-and-a-half baths. The lot was .92 acres, another record at the time.

We spent more than three years there. We might have stayed longer, but I had another boss who sought to pressure me to do things I thought not good for staff. We actually parted ways in spring 1999 and I spent a year trying to do some consulting from home. My son was in his senior year of high school and I was worried that getting another job that would require relocation was adding too much instability to my kids.

With my son approaching graduation, however, I needed to get another job.

15 Feneno Terrace, Brookline, Mass. 02446 — June 2000-July 2008
Another “long” residence. Former BC colleague Ben Birnbaum told me about a job opening at the Lynch School of Education at BC. I applied and was hired, to begin May 1. Ben also had told me the first floor apartment in his home was available, beginning June 1.

For the month of May 2000, I commuted Durham-Boston. It was frustrating to cross the Tobin Bridge, after driving an hour, have the Prudential Center in view and know I probably had another hour ahead of me to cover the last 10 miles. It was a bit easier going back to New Hampshire in the evening, except for Fridays. If I left at 5 on Fridays, I expected to get to Durham around 8 pm.

In June, we moved to Brookline. Feneno Terrace is a short dead-end street that originates in the Boston neighborhood of Allston. Only the last house on each side of the street in this picture is in Brookline. Our apartment is on the right.

I was able to enroll my daughter in Brookline schools. Her first was Devotion School, on Harvard Street near Coolidge Corner, where she attended sixth-eighth grades.

We left the largest home in which we had lived into the smallest. The apartment was two-bedroom, one bath, with a dining room and kitchen.

87 Beal Road, Waltham, Mass. 02453 — July 2008-August 2010
Maybe feeling footloose after eight years, I wanted a bigger place and found a rental in Waltham. My daughter had graduated from Brookline High School the year before and was in her freshman year at St. John’s College in Annapolis, Md. She spent vacations and summers in Waltham.

Made up for Halloween

Three bedrooms, one-and-a-half baths, 1,376 square feet, and a pool.

I remember a maintenance routine for the pool in which some of the water was pumped out. The procedure was supposed to be somewhat brief. One morning, I started the procedure. When I came home in the afternoon, I looked out the kitchen window at the pool and was surprised at how clear the water was.

Then I realized, “What water?” It was “clear” because it was air. I had pumped out the entire contents of the pool. !!??

I don’t think it was for that reason, but the owner not long after chose to have the pool removed.

Once again, we had the house pulled out from under us when the owner notified me in summer 2010 that the house had been sold.

70 Hope Avenue #201, Waltham, Mass. 02453 — September 2010-September 2011
Longview Place Apartments, also in Waltham, offered a promotion in summer 2010 — discounted rent and utilities included. Two bedroom, two baths, about 1,200 square feet. Nice modern apartment.

The following year, there was a significant increase in rent.

My last day of work at BC was to be December 31, 2011. In the spring, I began to look for a place to retire. I didn’t have Southern California on my radar at all. One day, looking online at the LA Times, I saw an article about a sharp decline in housing prices in Oceanside, Calif. “I know where that is,” I thought.

Browsing real estate websites, I saw that the price range for houses in that area of North San Diego County at the time might be doable. Moving a bit further from the coast, I came across a community with which I was totally unfamiliar. Prices were even better in Fallbrook and there was land. I did not want to live in the California I had been used to, with houses often very close together, with small lots.

I had to figure out a way to explain that, while I was working at Boston College, I was buying a house 3,000 miles away. I was able to get my boss, who knew of my plans, to sign a statement authorizing me to work from home, even one in California. It worked and I received approval from my bank and a mortgage company for a mortgage in an amount that would permit me to buy in the Fallbrook area.

In August 2011, I traveled to San Diego. I had tracked down 10-12 homes I wanted to check out and spent a couple of days driving around Fallbrook to view them. When I met with my realtor, he informed that all but two had been sold. We drove out to the two and neither was satisfactory.

As we left the second house, the realtor asked if I might look at a house he was representing. It was not yet listed on the market, but he thought it might be of interest to me. Though disappointed at the spare pickings, I agreed. We drove to it and the entrance was initially rather blasé to me.

Walking in, however, I saw the open layout and the view. Four bedrooms, two baths, combo dining/living area, 1,680 square feet, and on 1.35 acres. And the price was right. I didn’t need four bedrooms, but I wanted the house to be perhaps a bridge for my kids, a place they might live until they found a place of their own.

I told the realtor this could work and I would give an answer the next day. I called the next day and said let’s go for it.

I returned to Boston and began the paperwork process to try to secure the house. The realtor advised me to offer less than the asking price, which I did. The counteroffer came back $1,000 higher. “Okay, what’s the catch?” I asked the realtor. He said it was simply to reach the owner’s “emotional minimum,” and we got going on the rest of the paperwork. The realtor said I bought the house for about half of what it would have cost a few years earlier.

First time in my life, I think, that I bought low.

My lease at Longview was about to run out and I had to begin making mortgage payments on the Fallbrook house, so I looked for an inexpensive gap rental.

63 Forest Street, Brookline, Mass. 02445 — October-December 2011
A basement unit in this house was listed at BC as available. It was located in an area called Buttonwood Village, just a block or two from The Country Club, world-famous golf course. 

The owner had not gotten interest from students earlier in the fall, so she was amenable to renting to me for a few weeks.

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I had a moving firm put my furniture, etc., into storage. The plan was for me and the moving van to go across country at about the same time.

BC has an extended holiday break for staff. I figured I would start the drive on the day after Christmas. My younger daughter and her boyfriend accompanied me and my cat. Neither of them had a driver’s license, however, so I drove the distance. The last day of the drive was December 31, 2o11, Tucson to Fallbrook. 

3706 South Mission Road, Fallbrook, Calif. 92028 — January 2012 – ?
Upon arrival, having worried about the house being vacant for four months, I was very happy to see that squatters had not established residence and that no one had come in and trashed it. We made an emergency trip to IKEA for mattresses and bedding and woke up the next morning in 2012.

And here I am . . . still.

Visitors

In late February, two dear friends — Larry and Marcy Kenah — visited. They’re residents of Acton, Mass., had gone out to Bend, Ore., to join family celebrating their nephew’s 50th birthday, and decided to venture south.

In front of UC San Diego’s Geisel Library.

I picked them up at the airport early afternoon on February 24 and we went for lunch at Stone Brewery Bistro in Liberty Station. I took the “long” way home after that so they could see more of inland San Diego. Our first stop, though, was UC San Diego, to see the Geisel Library there (named for Theodor Geisel, “Dr. Seuss” and a native of my hometown, Springfield, Mass.). It’s one of San Diego’s iconic buildings.

There’s also a bit of surprise behind the library. Here’s a photo of Larry and Marcy with the “surprise” circled.

Yes, it’s a house embedded into the corner of a building. Indeed, it is attached to the Jacobs School of Engineering main building. “Fallen Star” is an art installation by South Korean artist Do Ho Suh. The house is fully furnished and has a “yard.” It’s open a couple of days a week for public tours. Here’s a closer view from the UCSD “Fallen Star” website.

Back to more “mundane” matters.

Dinner at Harlow’s. Alice, Winter, Meredith, and Adeline Anderson, Dillon and me.

The Kenahs joined us, including the Andersons and Dillon, for dinner at Harlow’s, a new restaurant in neighboring Bonsall. They spent that night and the next just up the hill from my house in a neighbor’s unit rented through Airbnb. Short walk between us.

Tuesday was our day in the desert. I had taken Larry out to Anza-Borrego Desert State Park during his visit in 2013 for the BC-USC football game in LA. Though Marcy had originally planned to accompany Larry here then, she decided assisting with a new grandchild was more deserving. She was particularly interested in making the trip to the desert on this visit.

Joining us on the trip were Betty and Wayne White, long-time friends of the Kenahs who live in San Juan Capistrano. As the route they planned to take to the desert brought them only two miles south of my house, we connected with them in Bonsall and caravanned out to Borrego Springs.

First, however, was a stop at Warner Springs to see Eagle Rock. It is a natural rock formation, located on the Pacific Crest Trail, but accessible only via hiking, three+ miles each way from Warner Springs. You can see it, however, ironically to Eagle/BC fans, from Camino San Ignacio. I had hoped we could get through the fence and get closer on foot, but the Vista Irrigation District, which owns the land, seems to have bolstered their barbed wire defenses. From the road, it was somewhat more difficult to discern the shape.

This photo had been taken on an alumni chapter trip to the rock in 2016. 

After Warner Springs, we drove down the dramatic Montezuma Grade from Ranchita to Borrego Springs. It’s a drop from 4,065 feet in elevation to 597 feet in 10 miles of severe switchback roads. Here’s a shot of the Kenahs and Whites at an observation point on the grade.

(L-R) Wayne, Betty, Marcy, Larry

We took a brief tour of the community of Borrego Springs, visiting the Anza-Borrego Foundation offices and its State Parks Store, both at The Mall. Then we made a stop at the Serpent Sculpture and drove east to the Badlands. Returning to Borrego Springs for lunch, we then drove out to the Texas Dip and visited Tamarisk Grove, finishing with hikes on the Cactus Loop Trail and Yaqui Well Trail. Here’s video (2:59) of the day in the desert.

Marcy in “the chair” at Stone Bistro.

We then headed west to Julian, climbing back up to over 4,20o feet elevation, to make a stop at the Julian Pie Co., for some of their delicious apple pie. The Whites then headed off to the rest of their day and we made our way to the Stone Brewing World Bistro and Gardens in Escondido for a repast. When Larry visited in 2013, we concluded my San-Diego-County-in-a-Day tour there and he sat in one of Stone’s Adirondack chairs holding a cold beer. Since that visit, I have brought each visitor there to have them sit in the “Larry Kenah Commemorative Chair.” It was near dark when we got there this year so the picture of Marcy in “the chair” is less than excellent.

On their last day with me, we started at my favorite breakfast spot — Beach Break Cafe in Oceanside. I have never eaten any thing there other than corned beef hash. Larry and Marcy were sufficiently persuaded by my enthusiasm to order it as well and are now, I believe, fellow enthusiasts.

Oceanside, once a pretty tawdry town infused with off-duty Marines from adjacent Camp Pendleton, has improved by at least several notches. It is still a quintessential SoCal beach town. Beach Break is in “South Oceanside.”

Outside Beach Break, on the Pacific Coast Highway.

Beach Break does not hold back on its surfer vibe. Surfboards hang from the ceiling and are mounted on walls. Video screens show great surfing rides. The walls are festooned with photos, many autographed by the famous surfers who have visited the restaurant. The oceanic vibe extends to the restrooms as well. Here’s a gallery of shots taken at the restaurant by Marcy.

 

We then took the short trip to the Oceanside Pier. At 1,942 feet, it is reportedly the West Coast’s longest public pier. We walked maybe halfway along the pier, watching the waves, surfers, and birds. Here’s Larry and me pier side north.

Here’s very brief video (0:24) from the pier.

Just a short hop to Del Mar Beach (not the town) at Camp Pendleton.

It’s about a dozen miles from the coast to Fallbrook and the route is essentially across the width of Camp Pendleton and the adjacent Naval Weapons Station, where taking photos is problematic.

After lunch in “downtown” Fallbrook, the Kenahs took off for the Whites’ home in San Juan Capistrano to finish their SoCal week. As I consistently and perhaps annoyingly reminded them during their visit, “It’s February!”

 

‘Down under’ on top

Part of “my world” during the Farmers Insurance Open.

Australian Marc Leishman came from back in the field on the final day to win the 2020 Farmers Insurance Open January 26. He shot a 7-under-par 65 to win by 1 over Jon Rahm, 3rd-round leader and winner of the tournament in 2017.

Winner Marc Leishman on 9S tee (TV screen shot)

With my duties as hole captain of 9 South on the Torrey Pines course finished, I sat in the volunteer tent and watched the final holes on television. Leishman had finished his round with a 2-shot lead over Rahm as Rahm played the 18th. In winning in 2017, Rahm had sunk a 60-foot putt on the 18th for an eagle. This year, his second shot landed eerily close to the same spot on the green as in 2017, giving him almost the same putt.

If Rahm had sunk another eagle putt, he would have been in a playoff with Leishman. That would have required many marshals, including me, to stay longer. I had nothing against Rahm, but I was rooting for a miss. His putt was closer than was comfortable, but it missed and he got a birdie. I got to go home.

My five-day stint at the tournament began Wednesday, January 22, the day of the pro-am. Toughest day of the tournament for volunteers — dawn to dusk. For the first time in my life, I believe, I was in line for gas at Costco before the gas pumps opened. Below is the scene at 5:20 am at the Escondido Costco. Already a line. :0

Wednesday is the day on which the marshals and I adjust to changes in our duties on the hole and to train new marshals. There was good and bad news in terms of changes, the most significant being that parking lot shuttles would be using the cart path and spectators would also be permitted on that East side. The changes required some initial adjustment, but they seemed to have little substantial effect, at least on what we needed to do.

Blimp in foggy skies.

For me, at least, the golf during the tournament is almost immaterial. My “world” consists of the 615 yards 9 South runs, the surrounding nearby area of the course, and the marshals who are assigned. On that first day, Wednesday, I spend nearly all the day walking to various marshal positions, talking with people, checking out conditions, trying to resolve issues that might arise. On that date, I walked 20,153 steps covering 7.7 miles. Broke my domestic PR set last year at the tournament, but still fell short of the 9+ miles I walked on a day in Berlin last June.

The weather played some games with us this year, though nothing like the conditions in 2016 that suspended play for the day. This time, it was just fog. Just fog, he says. In 2013, fog delayed the start of play on Saturday. I sat on the tee of 11 South, a par-3, watching the green appear briefly then disappear. Play was continually delayed during the day . . . and never took place that day. I was there on the tee from about 7 am until mid-afternoon, when play was finally cancelled.

On Thursday, fog rolled in quite quickly, but left after about 25 minutes. The picture below shows the difference, looking at the 9th green.

Fog also delayed the start of play on Saturday, but only for about an hour.

As has been the case whenever Tiger plays the tournament, celebrity trumps golf and he attracts bigger crowds than even the tournament leaders. The ninth and 18th holes somewhat overlap at Torrey Pines South, with the 9th tee heading south and 18th tee heading north. Here’s a photo shot from the 9th tee of the crowd at the 18th tee when Tiger’s group was up, at back left.

The only real photo of Tiger I got was from the back and far away. Marshals are to avoid using our “inside the ropes” status to take photos, so this photo was “subtle.” It’s Sunday, so it’s red shirt for Tiger.

This photo also shows one of the changes made to 9S in preparation for the US Open, which is to be held at Torrey Pines in 2021. A large area is now behind the green to collect shots that are too long. Shooting from it onto a green that slopes away the area adds to the difficulty of the hole.

There is also a new sand trap short of the green on the right that occupies some of the fairway. A report I saw said it was to encourage players to try to reach the green in two. During this tournament, I saw only two players — Rory McElroy and Bubba Watson — reach the green with their second shot.

Here’s a TV schematic showing the changes in 9S from last year.

And here, just because I like raptors, is a TV screen shot of two of Torrey Pines’s locals.

Local raptors. (TV screen shot)

Volunteers at the Farmers for the past three years are given priority as volunteers at the US Open at Torrey Pines. I submitted my application yesterday. There is also another Farmers Insurance Open scheduled for January 2021, so watch for what I hope will be two interesting reports on golf and nice photos next year.

Christmas 2019

First Christmas in Fallbrook for the Andersons and thus a very different Christmas for me, too.

I had never attended the annual Fallbrook Christmas Parade until this year. Below is video (5:12) from the December 7 parade. It’s held in the evening, which accounts for the rather dim video. Evening is more convenient for folks, I guess, and closing Main Street on the weekend would be problematic, but evening is also good for showing off the Christmas lighting.

Actual Christmas was also different. For only the second time (the first time being when Julia was living here), we had a tree. For the first time, I wore an attractive(?) Christmas sweater. And instead of the usual Dillon-and-me brunch, with chorizo and nopales (cactus) scrambled eggs, it was opening of gifts and Christmas dinner, featuring ham sent by Annie and Gordon.

Addy, Dillon, and the ham.
Baxter with his new Christmas companion.

Here’s video (2:58).

 

Getting to know SoCal

Last October, we undertook a few adventures to introduce and reintroduce the Andersons to various aspects of Southern California culture. (A combination of factors led to this presentation being tardy. Sorry.)

First — on October 19 — was “Borrego Days,” a community celebration held by Borrego Springs, situated in the middle of Anza-Borrego Desert State Park. Borrego Springs is 70 miles east and a little south of us. Here’s a video (2:52) showing some of the parade and our time walking around the exhibits in Christmas Circle.

The next day was Fallbrook’s “Harvest Faire,” held “downtown.” Video (4:21) below. Spoiler alert: they each won the costume contest for their age groups!

Balboa Park is San Diego’s central and major park, featuring several museums, gardens, etc. A couple of days following the Harvest Faire, Addy played hookey from school and we all traveled down to see the Park.  Here’s video (3:51).

Halloween time around here doesn’t feature the neighborhood trick-or-treating the girls were used to in New Hampshire. But there is another tradition — Dia de los Muertos, “Day of the Dead” — big around here. Celebrated in Mexico and among those of Mexican heritage, it is a multi-day holiday. We attended a one-day celebration at San Luis Rey Mission, 11 miles southwest of us, on October 27. Video (4:41).

 

Merry Christmas 2019 and Happy New Year 2020

Photo on deck taken December 8

There have been years, as I have gotten older, when the levels of excitement and change were relatively low. This year was not one of those.

Foremost on the home front was the arrival in April of the Andersons. Meredith, Winter, and progeny had visited each year from New Hampshire in February. Duh. This time, they drove. And they stayed.

I had urged them each year to consider moving here, and to live in my house. Now they’re here. Adeline (8 in January) is in the second grade at La Paloma Elementary School in Fallbrook and Alice (4, with tongue out) attends pre-school at the Early Childhood Center.

Winter is working at Charlie’s Foreign Car in tony Encinitas, mostly on Porsches, Beemers, etc. Meredith recently started a part-time job at the local Boys and Girls Club, as a social media maven.

The grandgirls attended the Fallbrook Harvest Faire in October and each won her age group in the costume contest. The presenters in the photo are “Fallbrook Princesses.”

Julia and I took our trip to Berlin and Lithuania in June. It was a wonderful experience and I am so happy I was able to share it with Julia.

On June 12, we flew on Aer Lingus to Dublin and then Berlin. We were met at the airport by Isabel Traenckner-Probst and her daughter. Isabel was our principal contact among the family of Wilhelm Canaris. Our trip was founded on the return of materials that had belonged to Admiral Canaris and had been taken after WWII by my parents, who had been billeted in the Canaris house in Berlin in 1945/46. (You can see much more about the trip, etc., with photos and several brief videos, at socalbillmcdonald.com Part I: Getting there You’ll be able to access the posts in order.)

On our first night, we attended a gathering of the extended Canaris family and spent the next several days with many wonderful new friends. Julia and I, and the Canaris family, visited the family home (photo below), and later Julia and I attended Mass at the church in which my parents were married. Perhaps too much information :), but the Canaris house is where I was conceived. My mother returned to the States in July 1946, followed soon after by my father.

Julia and I touristed a lot. Berlin—both old and new—is more than I had expected. Set a personal record for “steps” on one day and blew it away the next. We stayed in an especially interesting hotel for part of our stay. Its idiosyncrasy is reflected well in its name—Hotel Pension Funk.

We few to Vilnius, Lithuania, on June 19, and stayed in its Old Town, a UNESCO World Heritage site and one of the largest medieval old towns in Northern Europe.

Our street in Old Town Vilnius

We also visited the Curonian Spit, a 60-mile-long dune peninsula that separates the Curonian Lagoon from the Baltic Sea, and is also a World Heritage site.

On our return to Vilnius, we stopped in Kernave, an ancient capital, to join thousands of people celebrating midsummer, longest day of the year.

We also found the graves of an earlier generation, the location of which had been unknown to us. I had had no idea where in Lithuania my grandparents had lived before emigrating, but we found out, amazingly, through a Facebook page on Lithuanian genealogy. We learned that my grandmother’s parents were buried in Zervynos, an ethnographic village being preserved in a Lithuanian national park not far from Vilnius. We drove there on June 24 and found the graves of our ancestors (photo). Zervynos was very likely where my grandmother had been born and grew up. It was especially profound, to me, to have my daughter, another generation, with me.

Back to Berlin, we celebrated Julia’s 30th birthday with friends at, of course, a biergarten.

Returning to Boston on June 28, we then took separate flights home. Wonderful people, sights, and lifelong memories.

An unusual, if not particularly significant, highlight took place in the spring. I was waiting to meet Adeline’s school bus, when I saw a car with “Google” on the side and what I guess was a camera on top. Yup, I was captured on Google Streetview.

 Dillon is now actively engaged in “uncle-ness.” Julia and Sam are living in Beavercreek, Ohio, she still working with DFAS and he at defense contractor Leidos.

Also, as indicated in last year’s note, I’m publishing a blog about my active duty years in the Navy. Fifty years ago, I was on the USS Biddle (DLG-34), which deployed to the Western Pacific May-December 1969. That blog is BlueandGold1968-71.org. I found on Facebook a page dedicated to USS Biddle. I have since connected through that page with several shipmates. Even newer Biddlemen have found some of the posts interesting.

Wishing you a very merry Christmas and happy hindsight!

Back to San Diego

The final stage of the “Berlin/Lithuania 2019 Tour” involves a simple flight from Boston to San Diego on 30 June. It allows me, however, to post some photos and a video that may be of interest.

I had driven Julia to Logan Airport early that Sunday morning for her 7:10 am flight to Columbus, Ohio. Margaret Evans drove me later that morning for my 10:23 am JetBlue flight. Everything was essentially trouble-free. Again, nice way to come home.

Visitors have occasionally asked me about the large body of water they fly over coming into San Diego from the east. I’ll say, “Salton Sea” and see a puzzled expression. They’d never heard of it.

Here are a couple of views of California’s largest lake.

This photo shows Borrego Springs off in the distance.

“Green” hillsides contrast with desert.

Cowles Mountain and north San Diego.

Finally, here’s a time-lapse view of the approach to and landing at San Diego.

 

Berlin scenes

Sorry for going backward in time a little, but I wanted to share some more street scenes from Berlin that didn’t make it into other videos.

One of the scenes shows a sculpture of Ampelmännchen, literally “little traffic light man.” Designed and used in East Germany, this was one of the few elements of East Germany that found some favor in the unified country. The symbol has become a popular souvenir in various forms — on cups, shirts, magnets, etc. — and is used in many parts of Germany. There are three options available — Ampelmännchen, the old West German option, and a pan-German option introduced in 1992. Each German state can choose which option to use.

I mentioned how prevalent bicycle travel was in Berlin and how much it was supported. I don’t recall any sidewalk in the city that didn’t provide a distinct bike path. But something else also stood out. Most bicycle riders did not wear helmets. Even kids. It was almost rare to see riders with helmets. You’ll see evidence of this in a couple of scenes in these videos.

Back to San Diego

 

Back to Boston

We were to leave Berlin on the morning of 28 June. It was to be the reverse of our itinerary 16 days earlier — Berlin to Dublin, Dublin to Boston on Aer Lingus.

We took a cab to Tegel Airport and quickly checked in at Aer Lingus. Piece of cake. We got into the security line at about 8:15. Plenty of time for our 10:45 departure.

In line for security check

More than 90 minutes later, as we started finally to approach the security area, I noticed people coming up to those ahead of us, chatting, and then joining the line. I also noticed a group of about a dozen guys who looked like they were part of an athletic team just cutting in. By the time we reached the area that had barriers, I counted about 50 people who had somehow gotten into line ahead of us. We boarded our flight soon after getting to the gate. Glad we left early for the airport!

We had a somewhat long layover — 4 hours, 10 minutes — scheduled for Dublin. I had noticed Aer Lingus did not use the international terminal at Logan Airport in Boston, so I figured we would go through U.S. customs in some fashion in Dublin. We did. I had prepared all sorts of information about what we had bought, its value, etc., figuring we would have to fill out a form. Nope. Julia and I went through customs in adjacent lines.

When I approached the customs officer, and after she looked at my passport, she asked, “Where do you live?” Uhhhhhhh. I just did not expect that question. Somewhat stammering, I said, “Fall . . . brook . . . California.” She asked if I was traveling with anyone. I said, “My daughter” and started to point her out in the adjacent line, but Julia had already gone through the line. I looked around for her, puzzled. I’m sure the customs officer was beginning to wonder about this old guy in front of her.

She showed me a somewhat fuzzy picture on her computer screen of what looked like my luggage. She asked if this appeared to be luggage with which I was connected. I hesitantly said, “I believe so.” “Where did you visit in Europe?” “Berlin and Lithuania.” “What did you buy?” “Uh, amber . . . teeshirts . . . souvenirs.” “Thank you, Mr. McDonald.” “What?” “You can go now.”

Julia had been asked only where she lived.

Lunchtime. I was finally able to sit and enjoy some Guinnesses, along with enjoying overheard chatting between two Irish biddies, talking rather sharply about various members of their families. 

Below is brief video (0:26) of our departure from Dublin, with a view of the east coast of Ireland.

The Atlantic crossing, heading west, took a little longer than the opposite route. We were back on an Airbus 330 and again enjoyed a meal — pasta.

Flying over Newfoundland, Canada, we saw it still had some snow in late June.

We landed in Boston about 6:30 pm. Took Lyft to the home of friend Margaret Evans in Brookline. It had been a long day. With the six-hour time difference between Berlin and Boston, our body clocks were at something like 1:30 am while we chatted with Margaret. Sleep that night was easy and deep. Nice to be back. It was already less stressful, able to read signage and be familiar with surroundings.

Berlin scenes

 

Berlin, part IX: Shopping and a birthday

On our last full day in Berlin, 27 June, we looked, as we had done in Lithuania, to get gifts to bring home. That evening, we celebrated a special birthday with new friends.

Julia and I first split up to do shopping, and I headed to the Porsche Zentrum. I was looking for a gift from Porsche that would be perhaps Germany-only for my son-in-law, and Isabel’s son, Lars, had suggested this location. (My son-in-law had just started working for Charlie’s Foreign Car in Encinitas, which focuses on German cars.)

Porsche’s headquarters are in Stuttgart, but it and other German automakers have zentren (centers) in Berlin, most of them in the same general area, in Charlottenburg along the Franklinstraße. Here’s a gallery of some of them.

 

I also went by a building with a sign saying “talk about race.” Wow, was it a “woke” organization working to foster conversation about an important issue in Germany? Wondered for maybe a second. Then remembered where I was . . . in the middle of automobile companies. “Race” meant “racing.”

The Porsche Zentrum offered displays of cars and a small section called “Drivers’ Selections” containing hats, shirts, key fobs, etc. I was able to get my son-in-law a Porsche Motorsports shirt. In the process of buying the shirt, I had to sign a form acknowledging that I had received the item. The sales clerk then stamped the form with two different stamps. Then there was a second transaction charging my debit card. It all seemed somehow “German.” Here’s a gallery of cars on display and other scenes of the zentrum.

 

We also spent time on Kurfürstendamm, the street just north of our hotel. It’s one of the premier shopping areas in Berlin. I mean, the Apple Store is there, for crying out loud. 🙂 Here’s a gallery of some of the stores there.

 

One building on the street was especially interesting to me, a resident of California. Here’s the Berlin version of Hotel California. You can tell by the ersatz palm trees.

In addition to the high-end shopping opportunities, there were also a ton of souvenir shops, including one that offered a new use of the iconic Trabant.

That evening, our last in Berlin, we had been invited to join a group at the Café am Neuen See, a classic biergarten on the “new lake” in Tiergarten. The reason: Julia’s 30th birthday. Our hosts were Michael and Connie Günther, as well as Isabel Traenckner-Probst and her son, Lars. (Lars, 17, had just returned to Berlin from competing in the national four-man, under 19, rowing competition. His team finished second, in a photo finish. His pride at the accomplishment was diminished greatly by the close loss. If his team had won, they would have competed in the world under-19 championships in Japan.)

From left: Michael Günther, Julia, me, Isabel Traenckner-Probst, Lars Probst, and Connie Günther.

We enjoyed traditional beer garden fare and the company of friends so far away. It was a great way to end our trip.

We had talked earlier with Michael and Connie about the television series Berlin Babylon, a “neo-noir” crime series set in Berlin in 1929, during the Weimar Republic. The series debuted in Germany on the Sky network in October 2017 and in the U.S. on Netflix in January 2018. The show is based on the first in a series of four books by German author Volker Kutscher, which depict Germany 1929-31. Michael and Connie gave Julia those four books for her birthday.

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